I'm certain that you'll do whatever you think is right and continue to ignore general criticism about your behavior as a player and in-game behavior. As you're already showing that you do not seem to want to change anything that you are doing.
It does not alleviate any issues that I have with you, unfortunately. But you already knew that you were going to just be feeling like you are giving excuses. So we're at an impasse. You don't think you're doing anything wrong, and you don't intend to change.
So, there's no point to do anything else on either of our parts.
I'm sorry we couldn't reach an accord. When you'd laid out so much concern first about Czes' behavior not matching canon and then about it having no basis, I hoped that discussing the canon and in-game foundations might be constructive for us both. That's clearly not the case. I admit to some confusion why you'd say all of those things if you didn't care about them after all, but when it comes down to it, I suppose that's not what matters.
What is important is that you feel uncomfortable as a result of my actions. If there's anything I can do to make things less awkward for you, please feel free to approach me again. As above, I'm willing to work around your or others' ideas. I can exclude him from your plots or try to tailor the effect of his own actions on you. I can alter my own ooc behavior within reasonable boundaries. But you're correct that I'm not willing to downgrade Czes to "just surviving" in the game rather than being a participant in its story. Not as a result of this.
You've leveled a lot of accusations about my character's OOCness and about my impatient, lazy play style. But you've also told me repeatedly there's nothing wrong with a character trying to take actions in the metaplot when they have the position and motive to do so. I agree, and after two years of maneuvering under a constant threat, I feel this applies to Czes.
Thank you for voicing your disagreement. Thank you for highlighting concerns for me to be more careful of from here on out. Whatever your issues with me, I'm grateful for your courage in speaking up, and I won't forget anything you've said.
I hope your own plots prove rewarding.
Edited (correcting two typos; "about first about" and "discussing of the canon") Date: 2015-06-28 01:28 pm (UTC)
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Date: 2015-06-28 09:35 am (UTC)It does not alleviate any issues that I have with you, unfortunately. But you already knew that you were going to just be feeling like you are giving excuses. So we're at an impasse. You don't think you're doing anything wrong, and you don't intend to change.
So, there's no point to do anything else on either of our parts.
Bye.
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Date: 2015-06-28 01:22 pm (UTC)What is important is that you feel uncomfortable as a result of my actions. If there's anything I can do to make things less awkward for you, please feel free to approach me again. As above, I'm willing to work around your or others' ideas. I can exclude him from your plots or try to tailor the effect of his own actions on you. I can alter my own ooc behavior within reasonable boundaries. But you're correct that I'm not willing to downgrade Czes to "just surviving" in the game rather than being a participant in its story. Not as a result of this.
You've leveled a lot of accusations about my character's OOCness and about my impatient, lazy play style. But you've also told me repeatedly there's nothing wrong with a character trying to take actions in the metaplot when they have the position and motive to do so. I agree, and after two years of maneuvering under a constant threat, I feel this applies to Czes.
Thank you for voicing your disagreement. Thank you for highlighting concerns for me to be more careful of from here on out. Whatever your issues with me, I'm grateful for your courage in speaking up, and I won't forget anything you've said.
I hope your own plots prove rewarding.